Friday night and Shabbos day
Bless · Friday night · before the meal
Sanctify the day over a cup
Let words, wine or grape juice, and attention mark the beginning of Shabbos.
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Prepare with ease.
Keep nearby
- Wine or grape juice
- A Kiddush cup
- The Kiddush text
- Someone to guide the words, if helpful
Before Shabbos
- Place the cup and wine or grape juice on the table before Shabbos.
- Print or bookmark the text before Friday evening.
- Ask a host, mentor, or rabbi about the custom you will follow.
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Let the moment unfold.
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Gather at the table.
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Fill the cup.
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Recite or listen to Kiddush.
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Drink according to the custom you are following, then move into the meal without rushing.
Kiddush names what is already becoming true: this is not ordinary time.
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Questions people often carry.
Can I listen while someone else makes Kiddush?
Many people begin by joining a table and listening. A mentor or rabbi can explain the details that apply to your situation.
Can grape juice be used?
Grape juice is commonly used. Ask locally when you need guidance about a particular product or circumstance.